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Let's Rethink Mental Illness
It's time to end stigma and discrimination around mental illness. Use this guide to help change lives.
Introduction
Over half a million people in the UK are severely affected by mental illness.

But it’s not just what’s going on in their minds that makes life hard... it’s what’s going on in ours. One of the most difficult things about living with a mental illness can be the judgement of others.
This guide is full of advice and information on what to do if you’re worried about your own or someone else’s mental health. It will also help you understand the stigma and discrimination faced by people severely affected by mental illness, and how you can help change lives.

What are stigma and discrimination?
Stigma is when someone sees you in a negative way because of your mental illness. Discrimination is when someone treats you unfairly because of that mental illness. These experiences can make mental health challenges worse and could stop you from seeking help.
"One day, Chris rang me after work, shivering and crying. To my horror, I found out two police officers had called him out of the pool. Someone felt it was necessary to call the police, to ‘protect the children’, because Chris disclosed to the lifeguard that he had a mental illness..”
Georgie
Carer for son, Chris, who
lives with schizophrenia
"I often heard people talk about the emotions displayed as ‘attention seeking’, making comments about the individual’s unstable state.”
Nadia B
Lives with BPD (Borderline personality disorder)
"My Dad didn’t ‘believe’ in mental illness. His response when I told him I thought I was depressed was, ‘depression doesn’t exist, just smile more, go for a run, get over it’. We continued to keep my suicide attempt a secret from my Dad and still do.”
Nadia T
Lives with EUPD (emotionally unstable
personality disorder)
"I lost my ex-fiancée, she didn’t want to know me. My friends disappeared off the face of the earth."
Keith
Lives with bipolar disorder

Understanding stigma
There is still stigma around mental illness. Taking a moment to think about what you say can help to reduce it. Throwaway comments and ‘jokes’ can feel very personal and hurtful to those affected by mental illness.
Challenging misconceptions
Stigma can be caused by harmful misconceptions about mental illness. Like the idea that living with a mental illness is a weakness, or a choice, that it has to make you violent or irrational, or means you can’t necessarily live a fulfilled life. Challenging these misconceptions will help us oppose stigma and discrimination.
"One misconception that frustrates me is the misdiagnosis of all people with BPD as crazy or manipulative. Often we are just struggling to deal with our pain, and such judgements are not only harsh and reductive, but also unfair.”
Lucy
Lives with BPD (borderline
personality disorder)
"One of the most frustrating misconceptions about psychosis is people associating it with ‘psycho’ and thinking it means psychopath. People with psychotic conditions are not necessarily dangerous, they need help and to feel safe.”
James
Lives with schizoaffective disorder
"When OCD is misunderstood as a cute personality quirk, it is not taken seriously. Inaccurate depictions of OCD literally stop people from getting help. This is why it is essential to educate people about what OCD really is.”
Georgina
Lives with OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder)

Concerned about what to do
Worried about your own or someone else’s mental health? We’re here to help. We’re all unique and there’s no ‘one-size-fits-all’ way to support someone living with a mental illness.
But here are a few things to keep in mind:



From time to time, we can all feel more stressed, angry or sad than usual. But if you have a friend or relative who experiences these changes consistently over a long period of time, it could be a sign they are developing mental illness.

Here are some common changes to look out for:

  • mood and behaviour changes
  • work, family or social life issues
  • changes in energy or concentration
  • sleeping or eating too much or little
  • increased use of alcohol or drugs
A natural first step might be to say seeing their doctor is a good idea. The person might not want to, but the earlier they get help and treatment, the quicker they will start to recover.

Below are some other ways you can help:

If you’re worried about your own mental health.
1 in 4 people experience a
mental health issue in England every year
More than half a million people are severely affected by mental illness in England, and many more live with common mental health problems.
If you’ve noticed changes in the way you think or feel which cause problems in your day-to-day life, getting help early can speed up your recovery – you can get support and treatment from the NHS.

If you need urgent help you can
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A useful reminder

Thanks for helping to create a world where everyone living with severe mental illness is treated with dignity and respect. Here are the key things to remember:
  • 1
    Impact
    Stigma and discrimination can have a profoundly negative impact on people living with mental illness
  • 2
    Understanding
    Understanding misconceptions about mental illness is key to challenging stigma.
  • 3
    Listening
    If someone tells you they are living with mental illness, make sure they feel heard.
  • 4
    Signs
    Keep an eye out for signs of anxiety, irritability and changes in sleeping patterns and mood
  • 5
    Support
    If you’re worried about your own mental health, the NHS can give you support and treatment. Your doctor would be a good place to start.
  • 6
    You're not alone
    Find more information on our website (rethink.org), or from other organisations who can help. You’re not alone.

About Rethink Mental Illness
No matter how bad things are, we can help people severely affected by mental illness to improve their lives.
As a leading charity provider of mental health services in England, we’re on a mission to bring about meaningful change: to our health and social care system, to the way society views mental illness, and to people’s lives across the country.
People severely affected by mental illness are at the heart of everything we do. The rich diversity of their experience shapes our advice, information, and around 200 groups and services, and drives our campaigns to change the law and tackle discrimination.

Our trusted advice and information is accredited by the Patient Information Forum.
Contact us
Visit: www.rethink.org
Email: lets@rethink.org
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